Moses
The Down-to-Earth Helper
- Practical
- Flexible
- Reserved
- Warm
Moses types notice who has been pushed aside and offer practical help. At a well in Midian, Moses stood up for seven sisters and watered their flock.
An illustrative Big Five pattern. Further out means a stronger tendency; emotional balance varies from person to person.
They think before they speak, and they notice how people are doing and make time for them.
Their care comes out in practical ways: a hand with the bags, a seat saved, a message after a bad day. They may not say much in a crowd, but the person next to them feels noticed.
Strengths
They keep it useful
They care about what actually works. When a friend has a problem, they think of a real next step to take.
They adapt easily
When plans change, they change with them. They can switch tasks or try a new way without much fuss.
They listen well
They are happy to let others talk while they take it in. Making that space can help a conversation feel less rushed.
They back people up
When someone is being pushed aside, they step in and help. They would rather speak up for people than walk away from them.
Watch-outs
You may try to handle everyone’s problems
You feel for people, so their troubles can pile up on you. Help where you can, and let a trusted adult carry the rest.
You may keep your own needs quiet
You may keep your own needs quiet while you look after others. Tell one friend what would help you this week.
You may lose track of deadlines
Because you adapt so easily, deadlines can sneak up on you. Put the big dates somewhere you will see them.
Moses as a friend
As friends, Moses types often notice someone on the edge and look for a practical way to include them. They may prefer a quiet conversation and be willing to adjust plans.
Friends who check in without waiting to be asked can help make space for their needs as well.
What helps them feel close
- Friends who ask how they are doing and wait for the answer.
- A quiet place to talk instead of a crowded room.
- Someone who lets them help in a practical way.
In everyday life
Youth group
At youth group or on a team, they notice who is on their own and go and sit with them. They are happy to help wherever they are needed.
School
Real examples or a hands-on task may appeal to them. A quiet place to begin and one visible deadline are useful options to try.
Faith
Their faith may show in praying for other people and helping them. God knows them by name, and he loves them before they do a single thing for anyone.
Who near you is being pushed aside, and how could you help?
When shepherds drove seven sisters away from a well in Midian, Moses stood up, helped them and watered their flock. Years later, after the people had turned away from God, Moses went back to pray for them.
“Forgive their sin,” he asked, “and if not, please blot me out of your book.” When Joshua wanted two men stopped from prophesying in the camp, Moses said he wished all God’s people were prophets.